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OFF THE GRID IN THE PHILIPPINES / Living In The Province

📅 2021-12-12⏱ 18:31👁️ 18.2K views👍 2.2K likes💬 422 comments
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Pea returns to visit Nanai, an 87-year-old woman living alone in a remote village, almost exactly one year after their first meeting. Nanai is a WWII survivor who previously shared her wartime memories and her love story with her late husband. This visit includes a surprise wellness checkup by a health worker, Christmas gifts, and a tour of Nanai's humble off-grid home.

Background on Nanai and the relationship ​

  • Pea first visited this remote village about a year ago and discovered Nanai, an 87-year-old woman who shared her WWII experiences (Japanese soldiers entering the village) and her love story with her late husband while clutching the only photo she had of him
  • Pea has been visiting regularly since then, bringing food, medicine, and supplies — but most importantly, someone to listen to her
  • Many viewers asked for an update on Nanai, prompting this surprise visit

Nanai's current situation ​

  • Found doing laundry outside; she has difficulty breathing due to asthma, especially when she overdoes her chores
  • No new suitors (Pea asks this as a running joke)
  • Unable to contact her children in Manila because of terrible cell phone signal in the jungle — essentially no service
  • Pea had previously given her a new cell phone (the old one got wet), but the signal is too bad to use it; she also has no phone load
  • She has no Christmas plans — "No money, no honey" (Pea notes how funny she is)
  • When her husband was alive, they used to prepare pancit (noodles) for Christmas and New Year — noodles symbolize longer life
  • Now alone, her daily life revolves around gardening — she plants white flowers outside her house

Gifts and supplies Pea brings ​

  • The radio Pea gave previously is a big hit — Nanai uses it constantly to listen to the news
  • Pea brings a multi-function electric cooking pot (Marisha Grace brand) so Nanai can cook rice, boil water for coffee, and make one-pot meals during rainy days without having to go outside to gather firewood
  • The big surprise: Pea had their first photo together (from a year ago) made into a puzzle — Nanai loves it and jokes that they look alike; Pea says "of course, because you're my mother"
  • A second framed photo of them together at the boulevard

Tour of Nanai's home ​

  • Kitchen: a traditional Filipino firewood kitchen (what Filipinos call the "dirty kitchen"), located inside — no separate indoor kitchen, so this is both the indoor and dirty kitchen combined
  • Nanai owns machetes, which Pea points out as proof she's "a true Filipina" — she has two, including one with a handmade handle
  • Main room: a religious altar with Baby Jesus, Mary, and Santo Niño — Nanai prays before sleeping every night
  • She sleeps on a cot/bed that Pea previously got for her — she says it's "better than sleeping on a hard floor"
  • The living room/bedroom is essentially one room; a small receiving area with a view of the Moringa tree where Nanai gets her vegetables
  • Nanai has electricity but uses only one light bulb and the radio, paying a minimal amount

Wellness checkup with Mark (health worker) ​

  • Pea brought her friend Mark, a professional health worker from the area, for a surprise checkup
  • Mark checks Nanai's vitals: heart rate is 99 beats per minute (normal), breathing rate is 20 CPM (also normal/good)
  • He notes her surroundings with lots of trees provide good oxygen
  • Blood pressure is normal
  • The breathing difficulty is from the asthma, which he says can be treated
  • Nanai mentions she uses lemongrass as a remedy
  • Mark notes she's eating healthy — lots of vegetables and fruits from her garden
  • Mark and Pea plan to return for another checkup and to do Nanai's hair coloring — Pea says she's self-taught via "Google University"
  • They'll also bring new clothing on the next visit

Nanai's personality shines through ​

  • She's funny, self-deprecating, and resilient despite her isolation
  • She fears there might be even more visitors ("sleepers 2.0") in 2022
  • She clearly cherishes Pea's visits and the gifts, especially the puzzle photo

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